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Finally, I let some of my (and Jordan’s) close friends in on my process.I came to terms relatively quickly about my feelings.
I was beyond nervous to talk to her about my feelings. Nevertheless, we went to breakfast the next morning, and I told her how I felt. I did not use the “L” word (and would not for about 5–6 months for wisdom’s sake).
While this situation did not exactly line up with that law and Christians are not technically under that law anymore, the practical wisdom of this precept stood out to me.
When you both know and love the one who has passed away, it is something you share in your relationship.
After several months of growing in our friendship and seeking counsel of wise men and women in my life, I decided that our “friendship” had gotten to the point where we needed to address what was happening.
I realized this conversation was necessary after after a phone call that lasted late and was more than a few hours.
My view of her shifted from my friend’s wife to a woman I could have feelings for…. Scary in that I had no idea if anyone- including her- would be okay with me having those feelings.
In all honesty, I wasn’t even sure if I was okay with having these feelings.
I didn’t know how to talk to anyone about how I felt.
One month later, I talked to my parents about my feelings for Cady.
Well, if you know Cady (or have followed her story), you know that she actually ended up doing the ministering to our family.
She got out of the car with a massive suitcase to give clothes to me, as a way to honor husband’s close friend.
The biggest aspect I had to accept is that this pursuit would honor Jordan.