Men to avoid dating
Men to avoid dating
If you’ve ever seen a house of cards put together, you know that something as light as a feather can quickly make the stacked deck of cards crumble.In the same respect, I dated a few women whose entire (perceived) world would crumble when an expectation wasn’t met, or an innocent comment became Shiva, Destroyer of Worlds.
Inevitably, what will happen if your life revolves around another person is that feelings of resentment will build. As her boyfriend, I might as well have been feeding gasoline to the fire drama because I was a source of the crisis as well.
This will quickly devolve into her spending every waking second wondering why you haven’t called or texted, berating you because your lack of time together shows you “and it’s poisoning not just her, but you too.
If a woman doesn’t have friends outside of the time she spends with you, it can be a potential warning that you might be headed towards dating Smeagol.
It didn’t just extend to women, but many young men as well.
The problem wasn’t that the world was out to get them.
Sadly most men these days don’t lead with gentleness, humility, and selflessness in their relationships, which is why there’s so much misogyny prevalent in today’s society.
Often times, a young woman will have been wounded by an immature young man and to protect herself will become General Patton.You must walk on eggshells to keep the house from collapsing, so you end up meeting her needs while none of yours get met.This leads to bitterness, so when the cards finally collapse you’re the bad guy.There’s nothing wrong with being sensitive, it’s just when that sensitivity can ruin an entire day from something as seemingly harmless as stating, “.” Disappointment is fine in a situation like that, but pouting, back-handed comments, and general irritability may tell you that you have a House of Cards on hand.The underlying problem behind the House of Cards is that her foundation is shaky and in reality, everything revolves around her needs.She’ll lead the relationship through the and when he doesn’t fall in line she’ll be the one barking orders, inevitably becoming the very thing she despised in the man who wounded her.