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You’re the prize, you’re the catch, you’re the most amazing girl to ever give him the time of day, your time is precious and he will do whatever he has to in order to make sure he gets to stay in your charmed world.I hope this sheds some light on the whole game conundrum.
I am not saying get him to pursue you by acting unavailable, I’m saying actually be unavailable.
So go out there and do your thing, be happy without him (whether him is in the picture or not), and let him be the icing on your perfect cake, rather than the flour, the eggs, the sugar and whatever other ingredients go into making a cake!
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By that, I mean fill your life with fun, meaningful activities.
And do not cancel any of these fun, meaningful activities just because he calls and wants to see you.
My schedule was more flexible than his so it made sense that I should work around his schedule, right?
While in theory that makes sense, in reality, Craig started pulling away more and more.I dated many, guys after Craig and let me tell you, whenever I’ve been overly available I went through that same cycle.They say insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.The frequency of calls and texts declined…he was always “too busy” to hang out…he stopped initiating contact (but would always respond when I reached out to him, acting nice and normal like always)…Eventually, I stopped reaching out because it was starting to make me feel like an idiot…and he was never to be heard from again.When I eventually met up with Craig at the bar, the first thing he said after our friendly hellos and my apology for changing things around last minute was: “I like that you didn’t cancel on your friends.